Hi, I'm Bella, and I love being in connection. I'm a certified Cuddlist and an intimacy coach and educator. I enjoy helping people relax into safe, consensual touch.

We are living in a time of great disconnection.  And what I've learned across all of this work is that much of our disconnection isn't about touch itself — it's about the pressure and expectations we carry around it. The pressure to be a certain way in order to be worthy of closeness.

Cuddle therapy, for me, is where that pressure gets to fully drop away.

I bring a mind-body-energy-spirit approach to everything I do.  Beyond the physical act of touch, it's about creating a space where your whole self gets to settle. There's no agenda here. No performance. Just two people, present with each other, letting touch be exactly what it is in that moment.

Because I also work as an intimacy coach, I tend to be especially attuned to clients navigating touch aversion, anxiety, inhibition, or a general sense of disconnection from their own bodies — though you don't need to be working through anything in particular to book a session. Plenty of people come simply because they're touch-deprived, lonely, or curious about the healing power of consensual, platonic touch.

Beyond nourishing platonic touch and cuddles, I also offer authentic connection and emotional intimacy.  I can support you as you heal from past wounds and provide guidance to soften the blocks keeping you from closeness. Relationship intimacy and consent coaching is my jam!

I offer a safe and supportive space to speak freely, without judgment, about whatever topics arise.  Imagine a confidential, shame-free zone to discuss whatever is present within you, and allow it to unfold and blossom. 

As an educator, I'm passionate about the range of different kinds of touch: healing, nurturing, loving touch. As a certified Reiki Level II practitioner, I bring energetic and hovering touch to my Cuddle work.

Every session starts with an honest conversation about consent, comfort, and boundaries. I'll ask how best to support you, and will follow your lead. I'll hold the container for you to create your own experience. You're always free to change your mind as we go, and if something doesn't feel right in the moment — that mutual practice of speaking up is, in itself, part of the work. 

You'll get to practice and learn what it feels like in your body to make a request for touch and to negotiate an experience that meets your needs. My goal is to provide a nurturing connection and consensual touch at your own pace.

This work is entirely platonic, and I hold that boundary with the same care I bring to every part of my practice.

All requests for a session begin with an interview call to discuss expectations, terms of agreement, and session details. We'll have an opportunity to learn about one another and decide if we're a good fit.  

If we agree to move forward, we will schedule a brief face-to-face meeting for a coffee or tea and to answer any other questions or concerns that may have arisen.

Bella B

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